A psychic medium recounts her long and complicated experience attempting to connect with the spirit of JonBenet Ramsey.

She begins by explaining that when the little girl was murdered in 1996, she avoided the story because she had young children of her own and did not want to focus on tragedy.

Years later, around 2005, she was working with a television network to develop a psychic show.

During that time, producers asked her opinion about the JonBenet case.

She had been practicing automatic writing, so she attempted to reach out to the child and record whatever she sensed.

In those early automatic writings, she felt that the killer would be found in the far east, that he would appear to be between twenty eight and forty, have brown hair, and a thin build.

Her impression reminded her of someone who worked outdoors, possibly a gardener.

She publicly posted these impressions in a written blog read by people in her industry.

Not long after, she was invited to speak at a dinner where the conversation again shifted to JonBenet.

That led to an invitation to appear on the television show The Insider during 2006.

Around that time, John Mark Karr confessed to the murder.

When she heard his confession, she immediately sensed mentally that he was not the killer.

She said this repeatedly in the meeting but was encouraged to present her thoughts differently.

She refused and insisted that he was not the murderer.

The show decided not to air her segment because it did not fit their intended narrative.

Instead, they re-aired old footage of another psychic who had predicted events during the nineties.

Her words were edited out completely.

She uses this as an example of how media can choose what perspective to present rather than seeking accuracy.

Years passed, and she did not think much about the case until recently, when the subject resurfaced in public conversations.

JonBenet would now be about twenty eight, born in 1990, so the medium wondered what her energy might feel like as an adult spirit.

She meditated and asked the little girl to come forward.

She did not expect a full conversation, because spirits do not always respond.

During meditation, she first saw the image of JonBenet as a six year old.

The child did not appear in pageant makeup or costumes but looked like a normal little girl with a fresh face and some freckles.

The spirit acted playful, appearing briefly and then disappearing as if playing hide and seek.

This is how psychic images often work.

The medium describes that impressions can be subtle and fleeting, requiring careful attention.

She emphasizes that people on the other side are under no obligation to give information simply because they are called upon.

The image shifted suddenly, and she saw an adult version of JonBenet.

This adult form had long pale hair, thin build, and a taller presence.

She knew intuitively that this was the grown version of the child.

She explains that spirits sometimes continue to grow and develop on the other side.

Even though a child may die young, the soul continues maturing.

Some people may resist the idea, but she insists that consciousness evolves beyond physical life.

The adult JonBenet felt introverted, studious, and very quiet.

She showed images of libraries and long halls filled with books.

She seemed to spend her time studying, researching, and observing.

She also watched her family from the other side, trying to understand what happened after her death.

Her connection to them remained strong, suggesting that she still felt bonded to them.

The medium asked telepathically who killed her.

JonBenet did not respond directly.

Instead, she shifted the medium’s attention to the night before her death.

The child showed the Christmas party that many people remember.

There were many children dressed formally in their holiday clothes.

She showed herself playing with other kids, running around with excitement.

Her brother appeared in the images but was interacting with older children.

The emotional tone of the memory was joyful and harmless.

When the medium sensed the energy between the child and her family, she felt warmth rather than fear.

This warmth convinced her that neither the mother nor the brother killed her.

She sensed that the brother experienced something strange or difficult in his own life, something separate from the murder accusation.

The girl’s energy showed compassion toward him.

She also sensed that the mother was unaware of what was happening.

The mother seemed preoccupied with her own issues, possibly illness or emotional strain.

Although the mother might have overlooked warnings, she did not seem directly responsible.

When the medium pressed again for details about the killer, JonBenet shifted the focus to another room at the party.

She showed a group of adult men, possibly five in total.

They were talking intensely, discussing business matters.

Her father appeared among them, shaking hands with a larger man.

The presence of cigars and businesslike mannerisms made the medium think the party had deeper purposes beyond simple celebration.

The medium saw a close friend of JonBenet’s mother along with another young blonde girl involved in pageants.

Everything appeared normal at the party.

The spirit did not signal danger in that moment.

When she again asked who killed her, the adult spirit lowered her head.

This gesture felt like shame.

The medium sensed that the shame existed before the murder, suggesting something troubling in the child’s daily life.

She believes the shame may relate to experiences shared between JonBenet and her brother, something unspoken and painful.

It felt like a secret they both carried.

She emphasizes that this energy does not feel like murder but like a hidden burden.

She describes that when a person dies in trauma, the soul carries that energetic weight across dimensions.

On the other side, spirits undergo a cleansing or balancing process so they do not reincarnate while still holding fear or pain.

Children especially are guided into harmony so they can regain neutrality.

JonBenet seemed to be in one of these learning stages.

The medium sensed that the spirit retained her personality but had matured internally.

Spirits do not automatically forgive, forget, or feel ready to speak.

Some keep their distance or stay silent, and that is their right.

The medium then sensed that JonBenet was still connected to her family because her life ended before its intended time.

She believes the child was not destined to die that young and that her murder created a new karmic strand.

The spirit seemed to be studying the motivations behind harmful people.

The medium strongly sensed that more than one adult male was involved in her death.

She did not see a lone attacker sneaking into the house.

She felt it was a coordinated act tied to something transactional.

The spirit does not appear the same on the other side and seems to adjust her appearance to avoid recognition, which makes the medium think the child had dual exposure in life, both pageants and something else.

She sensed a memory of JonBenet leaving the Christmas party.

Contrary to public claims that the father carried her inside asleep, the medium saw the child awake and energetic.

She saw the father holding her hand while JonBenet resisted.

The child was being led not toward her own house but in a different direction.

The medium felt the beginning of the crime took place away from the Ramsey home.

She sensed struggle, confusion, and refusal.

She felt the presence of adult men.

She felt the brother knew something but was not the killer.

She believed he carried the same hidden shame and emotional damage.

She sensed that the death was connected to business rather than random violence.

It felt like a transaction rather than a spontaneous act.

She believes several people know the truth but will never reveal it.

When she presses the spirit to speak further, the energy shuts down.

JonBenet covers her mouth symbolically.

The spirit does not want the medium to reveal details and is not ready to discuss the identity of the killers.

The medium ends by saying she will continue to meditate and wait for the child to speak when she chooses.

She stresses that spirits cannot be forced, and JonBenet seems protective of her story.

The girl appears focused on healing, studying, and understanding rather than pointing to her killer.